Are you living to hear the other’s Okay’s, accomplishing their intentions, dreams or objectives? Adopting the values, beliefs, opinions, thinking style of your friends, colleagues or parents, as your own!

Have you ever wondered WHY you strive to copy, impress or please others by what to work or choose as a career, how to dress, talk, eat, socialize and most importantly how to feel, think and behave?

Are you too busy to meet their expectations? … What affirmation are you looking for?  Acceptance, social belonging, standing out or fitting in?

Are you afraid to show who you really are?  And if so, they might not like you?  Reject you? Prejudge you? Or they might know about any signs of vulnerability or weakness that you have?   Or do you fear the process of examining your life under a microscope? As a result, you prefer to put on a mask rather than be your true authentic Self.

 What about YOU? YOURSELF ?

Being yourself is important, accepting you self is power but knowing yourself is essential.

Personal Identity is made of sameness of consciousness" John low

Some questions to keep considering!

• Do i know myself well?
• Am I clear about WHAT I truly want in life?
• Do i have a sense of purpose?
• WHAT is my true passion?
• WHAT defines me?
• WHY I am thinking the way I think?
• WHY I am behaving the way i do?
• WHAT drives my decisions?
• HOW do i really feel about myself and the people in my life?
• Am I avoiding the truth? I’d always have an excuse?
• WHAT is my worse fear?
• Do I accept setbacks in my life without judging myself for it?
• WHEN was the last time I was aware of being aware?
• WHAT makes me happy?

Everyone has  his / her own reality , this reality  based on individuals backgrounds, perspectives , perceptions  and experiences, their realities can inspire you, can influence you, can impart you  yet EVERYONE is SOMEONE ! Choose to build your own version of reality.

Never too late for true awakening on self. Basically, start by strengthening your inner knowing & value your self-worth then venture to express who you truly are! This is fundamental for self-development and self-growth and you’ll become much more confident and self-assured. Doing this will give you a considerable shift in your perspective and surely open many new doors inside your being!

I can say with confidence that the moment a person truly starts down the path of self-discovery, they will never turn back and certainly the journey is worth taking.

Golden Tip: Our beliefs create our reality; choose not to be the product of your environment, your circumstances, the people around you, the culture, the media and information’s that you consume. Remember, Whatever You Say After’ “ I AM”  defines who you are.